Perspective During TImes of Change

We have come to Earth to evolve by experiencing life as a human.  Sometimes it takes us more than one life to learn a lesson and, often, we switch roles with loved ones in different lives to fully experience duality from both sides.   Before we are born, we choose our parents, and make agreements with other souls to work together to experience various emotions.  We also choose the major events, situations, and locations in advance.  This is a bit simplified because we are all interconnected and I believe in parallel universes and timelines based on the decisions we make; however, we do set out goals for ourselves to achieve.  If they are not accomplished in this life, we come back as another person to complete the tasks we have assigned to ourselves.

It may be daunting for some to think that you chose the major relationships and life events in your life in advance because it means you are responsible for your life.  I also believe you can change your life while you are living it but you may not achieve the goals you intended for yourself to learn.  I believe that synchronicities let you know when you are on the right path for yourself.

At the same time, this also means you are not responsible for the path of someone else.  You may be the primary caregiver for someone, but their preselected destiny is their own.  Further, I believe that many seemingly horrible situations are predetermined and essential for our growth.  I understand it is often difficult to keep perspective in times of change.  Take the time to meditate to try to understand better the path you have selected for yourself and ask what you can learn from challenging times.

In general, this also means that when someone dies, it is most likely a pre-selected time to go home.  Although we experience grief and loss on Earth when loved ones transition, remember, they have returned to peace and chose to go home at that time.  You need to trust your intuition to determine if it is your place or not to intervene in someone else's life - and if it is their time to go home, celebrate their life, be happy for them as they are now at peace, and know you will be with them again.